Afterparties: Stories

Afterparties: Stories

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Seamlessly transitioning between the absurd and the tenderhearted, balancing acerbic humor with sharp emotional depth, Afterparties offers an expansive portrait of the lives of Cambodian-Americans。 As the children of refugees carve out radical new paths for themselves in California, they shoulder the inherited weight of the Khmer Rouge genocide and grapple with the complexities of race, sexuality, friendship, and family。

A high school badminton coach and failing grocery store owner tries to relive his glory days by beating a rising star teenage player。 Two drunken brothers attend a wedding afterparty and hatch a plan to expose their shady uncle’s snubbing of the bride and groom。 A queer love affair sparks between an older tech entrepreneur trying to launch a “safe space” app and a disillusioned young teacher obsessed with Moby-Dick。 And in the sweeping final story, a nine-year-old child learns that his mother survived a racist school shooter。

With nuanced emotional precision, gritty humor, and compassionate insight into the intimacy of queer and immigrant communities, the stories in Afterparties deliver an explosive introduction to the work of Anthony Veasna So。

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Syl

This was excellent! We Would've Been Princes! and The Shop are standouts。 So has a distinct style which carries through each of the stories, but each one has unique aspects。 Lots of heart and humor。 This was excellent! We Would've Been Princes! and The Shop are standouts。 So has a distinct style which carries through each of the stories, but each one has unique aspects。 Lots of heart and humor。 。。。more

Sophia

Afterparties by Anthony Veasna SoPublished August 3, 2021Roxane Gay's Audacious Book Club PickA vibrant story collection about Cambodian-American life—immersive and comic, yet unsparing—that offers profound insight into the intimacy of queer and immigrant communitiesSeamlessly transitioning between the absurd and the tenderhearted, balancing acerbic humor with sharp emotional depth, Afterparties offers an expansive portrait of the lives of Cambodian-Americans。 As the children of refugees carve o Afterparties by Anthony Veasna SoPublished August 3, 2021Roxane Gay's Audacious Book Club PickA vibrant story collection about Cambodian-American life—immersive and comic, yet unsparing—that offers profound insight into the intimacy of queer and immigrant communitiesSeamlessly transitioning between the absurd and the tenderhearted, balancing acerbic humor with sharp emotional depth, Afterparties offers an expansive portrait of the lives of Cambodian-Americans。 As the children of refugees carve out radical new paths for themselves in California, they shoulder the inherited weight of the Khmer Rouge genocide and grapple with the complexities of race, sexuality, friendship, and family。A high school badminton coach and failing grocery store owner tries to relive his glory days by beating a rising star teenage player。 Two drunken brothers attend a wedding afterparty and hatch a plan to expose their shady uncle's snubbing of the bride and groom。 A queer love affair sparks between an older tech entrepreneur trying to launch a "safe space" app and a disillusioned young teacher obsessed with Moby-Dick。 And in the sweeping final story, a nine-year-old child learns that his mother survived a racist school shooter。 。。。more

Ian

Beautiful, compassionate, incredibly well written。 1000% worth picking up。

Sarah-Hope

Short version: I loved Anthony Veasna So's Afterparties。Not so short version: I loved Afterparties for the community it depicts—Cambodians in California's Central Valley who escaped the Khmer Rouge and their descendants。 This isn't a community I know well, and So's stories offered one revelation after another as I thought about what it might mean to be a member of this community, to balance the weight of history with the pressures of poverty, and with the competing claims of identity: to be "tru Short version: I loved Anthony Veasna So's Afterparties。Not so short version: I loved Afterparties for the community it depicts—Cambodians in California's Central Valley who escaped the Khmer Rouge and their descendants。 This isn't a community I know well, and So's stories offered one revelation after another as I thought about what it might mean to be a member of this community, to balance the weight of history with the pressures of poverty, and with the competing claims of identity: to be "truly" Cambodian in a fundamental way and to be a teenager living in the U。S。, coming into one's own sexuality and power—and lack of power。I loved Afterparties for the community it builds。 Afterparties is one of those short story collections in which a minor character from one story may be the central character in another story。 Everyone's connected, and So gives us a chance to see those connections, but also makes us work for it, which I appreciate。 I liked not being told everything。 I liked the lack of backstory。 I liked that I had to build my own mental picture of community networks as I read。 The effort involved made that community feel all that more valuable to me。I also loved Afterparties because it exists。 So died of a drug overdose in 2020, a year before this book came out。 His second, and last, book is scheduled for a 2023 release。 I'm deeply grateful that we will have these two collections to enjoy, laugh with, and learn from, even as I mourn the fact that those first two books will also be his last。I received a free electronic review copy of this title from the publisher via Edelweiss; the opinions are my own。 。。。more

Alex

I first want to thank Netgalley and ECCO for an E-ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review。 Overall, I like this book as it comprises several short stories that weaved together nicely, although they are all very different。 In all the stories, you can hear the stories of different Cambodian-Americans trying to navigate being Cambodian and having head stories of the Khmer Rouge (a genocide) their whole life and trying to make their place here in America。 You can hear their struggles of id I first want to thank Netgalley and ECCO for an E-ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review。 Overall, I like this book as it comprises several short stories that weaved together nicely, although they are all very different。 In all the stories, you can hear the stories of different Cambodian-Americans trying to navigate being Cambodian and having head stories of the Khmer Rouge (a genocide) their whole life and trying to make their place here in America。 You can hear their struggles of identity in a culture very profoundly in this book。 I dated a Cambodian-American guy for over a year, and A LOT of the themes and topics that were talked about in this book saw while dating him。 We are no longer together, but I remember learning so much about Buddhism and Cambodian culture while we were dating, which is all very prevalent in this book。 Now I am not saying that because I think I'm an expert on this topic。。。 I AM NOT AT ALL, but I wanted to point out that I saw themes in this book as very relevant in my real life。 I also really enjoyed this book as Cambodian-American culture isn't often written about or learned about in general。 Thus, having a book that explores this is amazing and introduces people to a whole new group of people。 Overall, I think this is a must-read for anyone who wants to expand their thinking and knowledge of cultures different from their own。 。。。more

Sylvia Ndusha

Attached to every single charater。 RIP Anthony Veasna So, your story echos into eternity。

Kelsey

My most anticipated book of August is out today; I’d had my eye on this one since last winter, and am so grateful to Edelweiss and Ecco for the digital ARC。I’m still processing my many thoughts on this, but I am definitely part of the chorus of reviewers who highly recommend it。 “Three Women of Chuck’s Donuts”, “Human Development”, “Somaly Serey, Serey Somaly”, and “Generational Differences” were my favorites。This was the first Khmer-American book I’ve read, which I truly hope will change now th My most anticipated book of August is out today; I’d had my eye on this one since last winter, and am so grateful to Edelweiss and Ecco for the digital ARC。I’m still processing my many thoughts on this, but I am definitely part of the chorus of reviewers who highly recommend it。 “Three Women of Chuck’s Donuts”, “Human Development”, “Somaly Serey, Serey Somaly”, and “Generational Differences” were my favorites。This was the first Khmer-American book I’ve read, which I truly hope will change now that So has shown there is interest。 Life after genocide, generational trauma, queerness in an insular community, aging, figuring out what you owe to your community versus yourself… these struggles are illustrated so well in these stories。 “There was no ice in the genocide!” will stay with me forever。A number of times someone says they feel they need to have kids to replace the people lost in the genocide- as a Jewish person who doesn’t want kids, I’ve struggled with the messaging around that in the Jewish community, and it’s a very specific community vs。 self contradiction。 I appreciated the way So wrote about these things in a witty, irreverent way, but never losing the thread of earnestness。I also just need to mention the biographical final story based on his mother’s experience at the Cleveland Elementary shooting in 1989, which I never knew about despite growing up in California。 How is such a devastating hate crime towards children not more well known? How did we have an entire reckoning around anti-Asian hate without that being mainstream knowledge? For the parents of those children to survive a genocide only to lose their children to white domestic terror is such an indictment of the myth of the American Dream。Go pick this one up for a rollicking exploration of identity, trauma, and community。 It’s a heck of a legacy from someone we lost too soon。 。。。more

Drea

Wow。 One of the best short story collection I’ve ever read。 I don’t know how the author was able to craft these beautiful stories while giving us a peek at some of the same characters within different stories。 Describing generational trauma of Cambodian refugees who fled their country in the face of the Khmer Rouge’s genocide of the people, the author beautifully crafted characters who are complex and rich in dimension。 Gorgeous。 I looked up the author midway through the book wanting to know wha Wow。 One of the best short story collection I’ve ever read。 I don’t know how the author was able to craft these beautiful stories while giving us a peek at some of the same characters within different stories。 Describing generational trauma of Cambodian refugees who fled their country in the face of the Khmer Rouge’s genocide of the people, the author beautifully crafted characters who are complex and rich in dimension。 Gorgeous。 I looked up the author midway through the book wanting to know what he was working on next so that I could preorder - my heart fell when I read that he had died in December of 2020。 What a tremendous loss。 Heartfelt thanks to Ecco for the copy of this book。 I’m grateful。 。。。more

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Matthew

Thanks to NetGalley and Ecco for an advance copy of this book。 (I loved it so much I've ordered the hardcover to keep!)So's voice is so fresh and so specific。 It was enthralling to spend these pages with the children of Cambodian refugees in Stockton, CA。 The whole collection crackles -- what can't So do?? A book of perfectly-executed short stories, a master class in the form。 He winds these stories up so perfectly, it adds a whole meta level of enjoyment; it was fun to step back every few pages Thanks to NetGalley and Ecco for an advance copy of this book。 (I loved it so much I've ordered the hardcover to keep!)So's voice is so fresh and so specific。 It was enthralling to spend these pages with the children of Cambodian refugees in Stockton, CA。 The whole collection crackles -- what can't So do?? A book of perfectly-executed short stories, a master class in the form。 He winds these stories up so perfectly, it adds a whole meta level of enjoyment; it was fun to step back every few pages to admire how expertly the stories are constructed, how effortlessly he sets up meaning and consequences for his characters。Also, several LGBTQ+ characters, (maybe all gay men, now that I think about it?), so much more interesting and nuanced than you often find。 If you like short stories or stories about complex cultural identities, you should spend some time with this standout collection。 。。。more

Richard Derus

Real Rating: 4。5* of five, rounded up out of sheer misery that this is all we're going to get of the man's wonderful workOUT TODAY! I RECEIVED A DRC FROM THE PUBLISHER VIA NETGALLEY。 THANK YOU。My Review: The death by accidental overdose, at age 28, of Author Anthony Veasna So means this collection will have to serve us for a long time。 The loss, I know you're unsurprised to hear me say, is going to alter our national literary conversation。 Author So wrote these stories, and a handful of essays i Real Rating: 4。5* of five, rounded up out of sheer misery that this is all we're going to get of the man's wonderful workOUT TODAY! I RECEIVED A DRC FROM THE PUBLISHER VIA NETGALLEY。 THANK YOU。My Review: The death by accidental overdose, at age 28, of Author Anthony Veasna So means this collection will have to serve us for a long time。 The loss, I know you're unsurprised to hear me say, is going to alter our national literary conversation。 Author So wrote these stories, and a handful of essays in prestigious venues like n+1 Magazine, all seemingly intent on exploring something I think he was beautifully placed。。。first-generation American, talented beyond the ordinary, and further outsidered by his queerness。。。and perfectly suited by temperament to render his own: Dreaming your way into a world too brutal to survive。 These stories are satisfying in many ways, and not least among them is the author's simple, direct, conversational style。 Try this: read any first paragraph out loud。 Don't act, speak; they are all beautifully built for the rhythms of twenty-first century American speech。 And that is why I will mourn Author So's early exit。 I think we would've found many corners to turn and potholes to fill if he still walked among us。 That makes me feel sad。As is reasonable and customary at this blog, the Bryce Method of short, separate impressions and distinct individual ratings for the stories will organize my thoughts and feelings while hopefully allowing you to reach your own conclusions。 As there are so many thoughts, you'll need to look at them here: https://tinyurl。com/3b7vnnj9 But I'll be amazed and disappointed if you don't laugh out loud a lot。 。。。more

BookBagDC

These are stories about community。  This collection of short stories explores the varied experiences of Cambodian immigrants, their children, and grandchildren。  Several of the stories are told from the perspective of young adults, recent college graduates attempting to navigate their futures through the expectations of their parents。  Other are told from the perspective of younger children, figuring out what it means to be a part of a close knit Cambodian-American community and on the precipice These are stories about community。  This collection of short stories explores the varied experiences of Cambodian immigrants, their children, and grandchildren。  Several of the stories are told from the perspective of young adults, recent college graduates attempting to navigate their futures through the expectations of their parents。  Other are told from the perspective of younger children, figuring out what it means to be a part of a close knit Cambodian-American community and on the precipice of uncertain futures。One of the stories I found the most impactful involved a recent college graduate who has returned home and is working at his father’s failing car repair shop。  While he believes he is helping his parents by living at home and working at the family business, he soon realizes that his presence may be having the opposite effect。  Another powerful story involved a recent Stanford graduate living in San Francisco, where he is one of the only of his friends not working in tech。  Through an app, he hooks up with an older man who may be interested in him largely because they are both Cambodian-American — causing the main character to reflect on what he wants from his relationship, whether he wants a relationship at all, and how that relates to his connection, or lack thereof, to his various communities。  I found these stories powerful and original。 Loosely connected, the multiple perspectives, across generations, give the reader a sense of the experiences of the Cambodian-American community, in the context of compelling individual stories, offering insights into the queer experience, the economic struggles of millennials, and the difficulties of aging and elder care。  Highly recommended! 。。。more

Karena

“I imagined our lives together, our buying a house close to my parents, shopping at a Cambo grocery store every week。 We would be an openly gay couple in the community, a radical symbol of love for the youth, for anyone who ever thought they had to quit their home, their family, their lives, just to be themselves。” 💭 Have you ever met one of those people - perhaps they're a bit of a #NegativeNancy or consider themselves a pragmatist - and they see the depth of the world in a much different way t “I imagined our lives together, our buying a house close to my parents, shopping at a Cambo grocery store every week。 We would be an openly gay couple in the community, a radical symbol of love for the youth, for anyone who ever thought they had to quit their home, their family, their lives, just to be themselves。” 💭 Have you ever met one of those people - perhaps they're a bit of a #NegativeNancy or consider themselves a pragmatist - and they see the depth of the world in a much different way than most other people? They are likely empaths who are able to see and feel the emotions that float around them? I can't confirm that Anthony was one of those people before his passing last year (the book is published posthumously), but his stories READ like he was。 He has a way to make simple words seem like large concepts and to explore characters unlike himself。❤️ For example, the opening story is my favorite; he tells the experience through the eyes of two teenage girls and their mother。 Each girl has a different perception, kindness, and patience with her mother that is so genuine; I actually read that story three times because I enjoyed it so much。 It is STUNNING。View my full review and conversation at KolorfulKayReads on Instagram 🎁 Thank you to my partners at Bibliolifestyle and Ecco Books for getting this notable work into my hands ahead of its release date in exchange for an honest review。 It is available to the public this coming Tuesday, August 3rd, 2021。 。。。more

Zanyalis

Thank you to Netgalley for a copy in exchange of an honest review。 These are short stories of american raised children from cambodian tamiles。 Their struggles going through life, their experiences of genocide, fleeting the country and going to the USA。 There’s mentions of abuse, domestic abuse, genocide, violence and fear。 I really enjoyed my time reading Afterparties by Anthony Veasna So

Lacy

Thanks to HarperCollins and Literary Hub for the ARC。I had to sit and think after reading each one of So's stories。 And now that I'm typing up this review, I'm finding it difficult to express how brilliant his writing truly is。 Afterparties is a must-read, I can say that definitively。 Other than that, what can I say? How So's stories defy expectations? How they're so elegantly written? How they offer insight into this or that community? Readers have heard these phrases before。 But they're someti Thanks to HarperCollins and Literary Hub for the ARC。I had to sit and think after reading each one of So's stories。 And now that I'm typing up this review, I'm finding it difficult to express how brilliant his writing truly is。 Afterparties is a must-read, I can say that definitively。 Other than that, what can I say? How So's stories defy expectations? How they're so elegantly written? How they offer insight into this or that community? Readers have heard these phrases before。 But they're sometimes applied to works that don't live up to them fully。 These phrases are understatements for So's stories。 The best descriptor I can come up with for these stories that doesn't seem horribly cliched and is yet so horribly cliched is that they're so, very, deeply: human。 If you're interested in exploring more of what it means to be human, read this book。 。。。more

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Kyra Johnson

AFTERPARTIES by Anthony Veasna So is a brilliant collection of short stories that ruminate on the Cambodian-American experience, generational trauma, queerness, identity and belonging。 So’s writing is poetic, witty, humorous, tender and heartbreaking。 These stories will make you laugh, tug at your heartstrings, and remind you of what it means to be human。 So sadly passed away before he could see his work published but his spirit lives on through these stories。 From Anthony’s partner, Alex: “What AFTERPARTIES by Anthony Veasna So is a brilliant collection of short stories that ruminate on the Cambodian-American experience, generational trauma, queerness, identity and belonging。 So’s writing is poetic, witty, humorous, tender and heartbreaking。 These stories will make you laugh, tug at your heartstrings, and remind you of what it means to be human。 So sadly passed away before he could see his work published but his spirit lives on through these stories。 From Anthony’s partner, Alex: “What is writing but living, Anthony might say — living through the creation of a work of art whose legacy I’ve inherited。” 。。。more

Andrea Wenger

This brilliant collection of literary short stories is startling and darkly comic。 The stories are centered on the experiences of second-generation Cambodian Americans whose parents fled the genocide。 A common theme is the lingering effects of persecution and loss。 Characters often show a lack of direction and a tendency to self-soothe through alcohol, recreational drugs, and physical intimacy。 These stories are a poignant legacy of a literary career that tragically ended too soon。 Thanks, NetGa This brilliant collection of literary short stories is startling and darkly comic。 The stories are centered on the experiences of second-generation Cambodian Americans whose parents fled the genocide。 A common theme is the lingering effects of persecution and loss。 Characters often show a lack of direction and a tendency to self-soothe through alcohol, recreational drugs, and physical intimacy。 These stories are a poignant legacy of a literary career that tragically ended too soon。 Thanks, NetGalley, for the ARC I received。 This is my honest and voluntary review。 。。。more

Melanie

4。25 StarsContent Warnings at end of review。Thank you to Netgalley and Ecco for an arc of this book。This is a collection of stories about what it means to be Cambodian-American。 It combines stories from the older generation that immigrated to America during the Cambodian Genocides, to the younger generation and what it is like to live in that shadow。This is such a powerful collection of stories。 The writing is really strong and intense。 I loved the stories that included queer characters。 I also 4。25 StarsContent Warnings at end of review。Thank you to Netgalley and Ecco for an arc of this book。This is a collection of stories about what it means to be Cambodian-American。 It combines stories from the older generation that immigrated to America during the Cambodian Genocides, to the younger generation and what it is like to live in that shadow。This is such a powerful collection of stories。 The writing is really strong and intense。 I loved the stories that included queer characters。 I also really loved the way all the stories began to come together the farther you got into the book。 I really enjoyed how they were connected to form this community。 Great book。Pub Date: August 3, 2021Content WarningsGraphic: Domestic abuse, Sexual content, Genocide, Racism, Drug use, and Drug abuseModerate: Gun violence and Mass/school shootingsMinor: Homophobia 。。。more

Kimberly mamareadsalot

Short stories。I read one book of short stories years ago in school and I haven’t read one since。 Thanks to #netgalley and #eccobooks I fell in love with the stories written by Anthony Veasna So。 The stories were so different from anything else I read, and filled with cultural references and lived experience。 I don’t have anything to compare it to, The writings are beautiful yet candid。 So much so that there may be content that could be triggering。。Sadly, Anthony died before his book was publishe Short stories。I read one book of short stories years ago in school and I haven’t read one since。 Thanks to #netgalley and #eccobooks I fell in love with the stories written by Anthony Veasna So。 The stories were so different from anything else I read, and filled with cultural references and lived experience。 I don’t have anything to compare it to, The writings are beautiful yet candid。 So much so that there may be content that could be triggering。。Sadly, Anthony died before his book was published。 I hope the book does well。 It would be a living testimony to his beautiful writing。 。。。more

Cynthia Chiang

This was a beautifully written collection of stories about Cambodian-Americans。 The author's prose style is sublimely descriptive and he knows how to balance humor, tragedy, despair, desire, expressiveness and numbness without losing sight of the interesting stories (plots?) within each story。 The book is like a sculpture, both heroic and delicate, and it had me with its first story。 This was a beautifully written collection of stories about Cambodian-Americans。 The author's prose style is sublimely descriptive and he knows how to balance humor, tragedy, despair, desire, expressiveness and numbness without losing sight of the interesting stories (plots?) within each story。 The book is like a sculpture, both heroic and delicate, and it had me with its first story。 。。。more

Diane

Thank you to Ecco books for a gifted ARC of Afterparties!Afterparties is a stunning collection of short stories that ruminates on the lives of a group of children of Cambodian refugees and explores parental expectations, generational trauma, queerness, and aging。 Veasna So is able to poignantly paint a portrait of a small community through both sharp humor and tender moments。 There are so many of these stories that will sit with me for a long time, though my favorite is easily Human Development: Thank you to Ecco books for a gifted ARC of Afterparties!Afterparties is a stunning collection of short stories that ruminates on the lives of a group of children of Cambodian refugees and explores parental expectations, generational trauma, queerness, and aging。 Veasna So is able to poignantly paint a portrait of a small community through both sharp humor and tender moments。 There are so many of these stories that will sit with me for a long time, though my favorite is easily Human Development: a story of a young queer man who enters a relationship with an older Cambodian man who is developing a "safe space" app。 Veasna So tragically passed away from an overdose at the end of 2020, before the publication of this work。 More information on his work and life can be found on a recently published New York Times article here: https://www。nytimes。com/2021/07/19/bo。。。 。。。more

Zweegas

The August 2021 issue of Vogue U。S。 recommended some books to me, so here they are in order of my interest:Afterparties by Anthony Veasna SoGhosts by Dolly AldertonEverything I Have Is Yours by Eleanor HendersonAnd if I like all those, maybe I'll also read Agatha Of Little Neon by Claire Luchette but I'll probably never read The Paper Palace by Miranda Cowley Heller。UPDATE: None of these books have been released as of 7/29, the day when I read about them。 This is what I get for reading the most The August 2021 issue of Vogue U。S。 recommended some books to me, so here they are in order of my interest:Afterparties by Anthony Veasna SoGhosts by Dolly AldertonEverything I Have Is Yours by Eleanor HendersonAnd if I like all those, maybe I'll also read Agatha Of Little Neon by Claire Luchette but I'll probably never read The Paper Palace by Miranda Cowley Heller。UPDATE: None of these books have been released as of 7/29, the day when I read about them。 This is what I get for reading the most current issue of Vogue。 By the time these books are released, I'll have forgotten about them。 。。。more

Alana

I'm going to be thinking about the first and last stories in this collection for a while。 They were really wonderful and showcased such emotional depth and resonance。 I'm going to be thinking about the first and last stories in this collection for a while。 They were really wonderful and showcased such emotional depth and resonance。 。。。more

Kasa Cotugno

There have been notable collections focussing on the challenges faced by second or third generation immigrants, living under the pressure to succeed in a world their forebears have struggled to provide for them。 Here we have such a community, in this case from Cambodia, in Stockton, "。。。 a dusty California free of ambition or beaches。" It is particularly tragic that the author, seemingly a poster child for success of overcoming generational trauma, has died before publication。 This lends particu There have been notable collections focussing on the challenges faced by second or third generation immigrants, living under the pressure to succeed in a world their forebears have struggled to provide for them。 Here we have such a community, in this case from Cambodia, in Stockton, "。。。 a dusty California free of ambition or beaches。" It is particularly tragic that the author, seemingly a poster child for success of overcoming generational trauma, has died before publication。 This lends particular poignance to the final story recounting his mother's experience as a teacher in 1989 when her school underwent a racist massacre。 Although Anthony Veasna So didn't live to enjoy the expected positive reaction to his collection, he was able to see acceptance and recognition through the inclusion of his work in such publications as Granta, Zzzyva, and The New Yorker。 He knew he had broken the fate of "。。。 what Cambo men did 。。。 fixed cars [as did his father], sold donuts [I had no idea], or got on welfare。" At times hilarious, at times heartbreaking, at all times immersive。 Thanks to ECCO for this chance to read this early。 。。。more

Mana

Anthony Veasna So’s post-humorously published short story collection, Afterparties, encapsulates queer Cambodian-American culture with so much nuance and specificity that anyone from a diasporic community can resonate with his work。 This work explores the unique nature of ethnic enclaves which serve as a pillar to diasporic communities。 There are always recurring cast members: aunts and uncles that may or may not be related to you, the guy who sells a few years of his life to the American milita Anthony Veasna So’s post-humorously published short story collection, Afterparties, encapsulates queer Cambodian-American culture with so much nuance and specificity that anyone from a diasporic community can resonate with his work。 This work explores the unique nature of ethnic enclaves which serve as a pillar to diasporic communities。 There are always recurring cast members: aunts and uncles that may or may not be related to you, the guy who sells a few years of his life to the American military for stability, the weird uncle-figure who runs the grocery store, and the queer kid forever balancing individualism vs。 collectivism。 。。。more

Tina

AFTERPARTIES by Anthony Veasna So is a stunning short story collection! I loved it! All of the stories revolve around the Cambodian American experience and I felt such a connection as a fellow Asian in North America。 Several of the stories featured a gay male main character that was very autobiographical and I loved the representation。 It was great to read about the author’s personal experiences。 There were several times this book made me LOL! My fave story was Human Development but I really enj AFTERPARTIES by Anthony Veasna So is a stunning short story collection! I loved it! All of the stories revolve around the Cambodian American experience and I felt such a connection as a fellow Asian in North America。 Several of the stories featured a gay male main character that was very autobiographical and I loved the representation。 It was great to read about the author’s personal experiences。 There were several times this book made me LOL! My fave story was Human Development but I really enjoyed all of the stories! I highly recommend this collection!!。Thank you to Ecco Books for my uncorrected proof! 。。。more

Siobhan

Afterparties is a collection of short stories, some interlinked, about Cambodian Americans in California, and the complexities of lives as second or third generation immigrants whose families still bear the weight of genocide。 From the opening story, 'Three Women of Chuck's Donuts', which follows a woman and her daughters keeping a donut shop open overnight, to the closing one, a mother's reflection on how she told her son that she had survived a school shooting as a teacher, the collection is v Afterparties is a collection of short stories, some interlinked, about Cambodian Americans in California, and the complexities of lives as second or third generation immigrants whose families still bear the weight of genocide。 From the opening story, 'Three Women of Chuck's Donuts', which follows a woman and her daughters keeping a donut shop open overnight, to the closing one, a mother's reflection on how she told her son that she had survived a school shooting as a teacher, the collection is varied and yet feels like a whole, looking at the same themes and occasionally visiting characters who played smaller roles in other stories。I tend to prefer short story collections that connect in some way, and this one, with longer stories and a sense of continuity, was very much in that category。 It explores the impact of genocide and identity on Cambodian American life, giving specific perspectives but also broader ones about immigration (especially expectations and whether or not someone lives up to them) and sexuality and the intersection of both of those。 For such a personal collection, the narrators of the stories do vary quite a lot, which I enjoyed, and there's a real dark comedy edge throughout the stories。Anthony Veasna So died before this collection could be released, something which the reader is introduced to at the start of the book。 It's hard to review Afterparties without mentioning this, but it's also sad that it becomes the focus on what is a great collection that explores identity, family, and queerness。 。。。more

Tiasha ~ bachata。y。bengali

Anthony Veasna So left us too soon。 At just 28 years old, this trailblazing talent passed away from a drug overdose。 His debut collection of short stories explores the Cambodian American community, a group that is underrepresented in fiction。 His characters grapple with the aftereffects, the transgenerational trauma, that has resulted from the Khmer Rouge genocide, though So often portrays these dark stories with humor。 Many of the characters are queer, reflecting So’s own identity。 One of my f Anthony Veasna So left us too soon。 At just 28 years old, this trailblazing talent passed away from a drug overdose。 His debut collection of short stories explores the Cambodian American community, a group that is underrepresented in fiction。 His characters grapple with the aftereffects, the transgenerational trauma, that has resulted from the Khmer Rouge genocide, though So often portrays these dark stories with humor。 Many of the characters are queer, reflecting So’s own identity。 One of my favorite aspects of short story collections is when the stories start to intersect。 In this book, we zoom in on different characters, taking them from the background in some chapters to the foreground in their own chapter。 Memorable quotes "Tevy wonders if her mother has ever loved someone romantically, if her mother is even capable of reaching beyond the realm of survival, if her mother has ever been granted any freedom from worry, and if her mother's present carries the ability to dilate, for even a brief moment, into its own plane of suspended existence, separate from past or future。" "Gay, Cambodian, and not even twenty-six, carrying in my body the aftermath of war, genocide, colonialism。 And yet, my task was to teach kids a decade younger, existing across an oceanic difference, what it means to be human。 How absurd, I admitted。 How fucking hilarious。 I was actually excited。"Afterparties comes out on August 3rd, and I highly recommend this innovative, imaginative collection。 Thank you to NetGalley for providing me with an advanced reader’s copy in exchange for an honest review。 。。。more

LGBT Representation in Books

Trigger Warnings: Cheating, violence, porn, sex, domestic violence/abuse, school shooting, death of family, alcohol, drugs, addiction, genocide, stalking, suicideRepresentation: Cambodian, Gay, ImmigrantsAfterparties Stories is a book of short stories about different Cambodian-American characters and how trauma is passed on through generations。 These stories explore the lives of different children of refugees living in California and trying to explore their intersectional identities under the we Trigger Warnings: Cheating, violence, porn, sex, domestic violence/abuse, school shooting, death of family, alcohol, drugs, addiction, genocide, stalking, suicideRepresentation: Cambodian, Gay, ImmigrantsAfterparties Stories is a book of short stories about different Cambodian-American characters and how trauma is passed on through generations。 These stories explore the lives of different children of refugees living in California and trying to explore their intersectional identities under the weight of generational trauma from their parents。 I’ll be honest。 A book of short stories is not my normal cup of tea。 This book though, wow! I loved the author’s honesty and his layered, complex characters。 The stories are often funny or emotional。 The characters are Cambodian-Americans who’s parents lived under the Khmer Rouge。 They are struggling to figure out who they are and looking for comfort in the ability to leave their small community。 I think this is incredibly relatable for anyone from a tight community or small town。 The fear of being one’s self while leaving the place that has provided you with everything。 Overall, the stories are excellently written and contain both whit and love。 The author’s knowledge of various experiences and his love for the community he comes from is so clear on the page。 I’d recommend this book to anyone who knows what it’s like to leave home。 I am so grateful for this gift that Anthony left us。I received an eARC from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review。 。。。more